BD, D/s, S&M

2013: restored photographs on this website. All links within texts should now be functional. Open this Crash course in Ponyplay and check it out! :-) Click the links (to see piccies shot in 2002), then hit Back button (Alt+left arrow) to return to the text... it is frigging easy. Young generation keeps asking for menus/frames/rollovers - no such thing here, colts/fillies. This is Old School.

2010:Welcome to www.tom-bdsm.cz, which was a home site of a twisted family in 1999-2002 . A few years later, I had to delete the site. It was no longer possible to have our photos and real names on the net. Children grow and stupid people uncapable of helping others and living D/s themselves do the only thing they can - try to spoil other's efforts. For that reason, this site is now text-only. Sad, but true. It won't have as much visitors as before - visitors from abroad will not understand the texts, with the exception of PhotoGallery. The gallery, without photos, will now ínterest only those wanting to live 24/7 D/s, as it expresses oor daily experience and feelings. We're very open there. Curious surfers and virtual BDSMers will not find it appealing. This is intentional.

As stated above, the photos will not be published. Please feel free to look around the site and come back later! Bookmark this site (ALT+D in IE).

List of sections and information on updates can be found on the bottom of this page.

2002:This document is my attempt to prepare an English language version of our web site. Czech version of the site consists of documents covering our real-life experience with BDSM, translations of interesting documents depicting real-life BDSM, some stories and a Build you own toys section.

The Czech version of the web as of 24.04.2001 contained 200 documents (original texts, translations, some over 100 kB long and 250 photos (original photos, make-your-own-toys section or photogallery - records of our scenes). (16.02.2002 - 240 documents, 300 photos, 02.04.2002 - 246 documents, 330 photos) As of 23.05.2001, after 2 years of existence, the web was visited by over 100.000 visitors - although there are no advertising banners on itor anywhere else (02.04.2002: over 200 thousand, 23.04.2002: 212 thousand) That's not bad, what do you think?

(19.09.2002)There are four more photos in the Photo gallery SECTION. They were taken on DeFerre pony farm in England, which I can personally recommend (drop me a note if you want first-hand opinion on their superb facilities!). We then continued to PetWeek, but that's another story...

(03.06.2002) I have translated my three articles describing ponyplay as we are practicing it (from designing a sulky through daily training on several locations around our house, to playing at a Danish farm when PetWeek takes place). Design, manufacturing of two sulkies, practical tips and description of the commands we use - it all starts here. The articles are linked, so follow the links. Pictures are linked from the articles, they do not open automatically, you have to select a link and click it. I will post two more articles written by Kai later, after I get English text from him (or his consent to start translating the German original, or its Czech translation by Muflonek). And I will also translate DeFerre's newsletter (I got their consent, but I haven't got the time - yet :-).

(03/2002)During In the last year, I have translated into Czech a few more parts of the Diaries of Ay'esha (cool Femdom stories, but their home site keeps changing addresses, so you have to do a google.com search for "Diaries of Ay'esha" to find them :-). The stories are long (the first one is over 50 pages of plain text), so I am continuing my efforts this year, but it goes *very* slowly. (Too many things on my mind, too many trips with my family, too many scenes with L (updated 2010: L for Lady boss) - add it all up and there is almost no time for translations :-).

I have also expanded the Build you own toys section a little bit. I have written a few reports depicting participation in London's SM Pride, the PetWeek in Denmark, and Czech SM parties. All those texts are in the Czech part of the web, except for the few exceptions listed below, which I took the pains to translate to English..

After splitting with my wife (see later on this page), we are living back together and there is a new installment in the Photogallery which describes our trip to the location of the PetWeek (a farm well equipped for SM) - we spent five days there in April 2002, on a volunteer weekend. We had lots of time to play there as well :-) And we are planning to return there in May 2002!

(12.05.2001)
New installment - Photo gallery (created 2000/05/23, expanded 2000/12/12, first narratives translated to English on 2001/05/12)Photo gallery SECTION - original photos, some of our scenes

(12.04.2001) - travel diary: we had split and then I spent 12 days building De Ferre pony farm, England

New feature: (02.12.2000)
Our dungeon - a panoramic photograph featuring interactive links to bdsm toys captured in it.

In case you would like to contact me, feel free to do so. contact address is at the top of main page of this site. Do send me your comments. I am more than happy to receive feedback

(12.04.2001)I have decided to cancel the preparation of the English version of the site There were not enough emails to convince me to continue. You can only see a basic info on me or browse the Build you own toys section. You will find instructions for building SM toys there (in Czech). Each document contains links to other documents AND to pictures of completed toys. Therefore, you can view the images of the the toys by clicking the links within the Czech text. For about a year, we have been (with my ex-wife) writing narratives to the pictures taken in our dungeon and also in the meadows, forests, swimming pools :-) etc. The pictures need no translation, and I have translated the narrative, as it is relatively short, Check for yourself - Photo Gallery

These pages contain texts (99% of the content of the Czech part) and links to pictures only. This was my intention and I am not gonna change it.

Introduction

(2000):Well, you are still reading this, therefore, it seems that you are curious why I have put all this up. The answer is simple - I wished to share the interest, experience, desire...I had hard time collecting all this information (English-natives can have different experience, but there is only limited information on BDSM in Czech, and I am Czech), and I just wanted to help others by posting my English/Czech translations to the web. Do no expect any picture galleries, videoclips etc. on this web. Don't expect pornography, brutality, real humiliation and real maltreatment. IMHO, BDSM is about love and trust. I consider BDSM a lifestyle, which helps the partners to grow, be more happy, be more confident in themselves, to learn, even if the subject could not be understood by our vanilla fellas (yet) :-). It is a long way from the loneliness to a community, from unfamiliarity and fear to knowledge and solidity. But I tread it. It is hard, but well worth it.

I planned to post English versions of the texts linked from my Czech page here, but I hadn’t seeked permissions for that. Now I have lost some of the originals and they cannot be found at their original web locations. My apologies for this.

If you think you already learned what BDSM is and you are just looking for like-minded pervs, take part in SM party in Czech Republic, or contact me for going to OWK together (2010 update: OWK is for sale since 2008, it seems there will be no Tribunals nor Weeklong vacations in 2010).
I offer the following tips: feel free to mail me, you can join Internet-based chats, or try to look up other web pages of BDSM-friendly organizations and individuals.

When exploring the net, looking for a partner for BDSM discussion or a scene, please use your brains. You will probably encounter people who use nicknames (nothing against it, but be very careful whom you open your heart to.) Well, BDSM becomes more and more the "in thing",but there are many who cannot "come out of the closet" - for the sake of their parents, partner, children, colleagues... But there are people who just need an anonymous ID, because they already hurt someone and cannot be trusted. They change IDs to prevent being knocked off chats or e-mail lists. It is your life, but I still feel that I should add: find some details or references about whoever you are planning to meet in r/l. Tell him/her more about you only after you meet or at least have a talk on the phone.

For those who would like to enjoy a real scene but fear that their partner would not bear it, or have no partner, pro-Dommes are out there. (In Czech Republic, a 60-90 minute scene costs you CZK 2000 - GBP 50). Such a short, intense scene with a stranger, in a safe environment, in a studio or a SM club, can be satisfying for many (as I have been told), even if there is no emotional relationship between the players.

I would also like to present some personal information, so that you are more familiar with the author of these pages: born in 1972, married for 11 years, divorced (but we're living together - strange ways of the fate - ever since :-).

It was not easy for us to discover BDSM - we had to learn to know each other for the first 7 years and then I had to push slightly in the right direction for three more years before we arrived at where we are now - knowing each other, content with our relationship, trusting each other, therefore sceneing... For those of you who would like to "jump into" BDSM, I have no secret recipe for happiness - you just have to know your partner, you have to spend some time on it.

In 1991, I had read first Net News. Since then, I admire anyone (there are so many of you) who put down on paper their advice, knowledge, experience. Without you, I would not be where I am now. For some of you, BDSM is a part of your life for 20 or more years. If you decided to keep your experience for yourselves, I would never live the life I live now.

I would like to thank my readers for sending me comments regarding the contents of this page. I am trying to reply to all mails. Interesting articles submitted via e-mail can get published here if you would like me to. It is great to meet other BDSM enthusiasts; just try to imagine how I felt when a r/l dom showed me a hardcopy of my pages, pointed out to a park bench nearby and started to describe what he was planning for his sub, who was sitting on the bench and reading through a second hardcopy....

Sections

Photo gallery

Photo gallery SECTION - original photos, some of our scenes

How to - techniques, toys...

Build your own SM toys CZ - list of instructions for building SM toys - Original Czech list with correct links to Czech documents
Build your own SM toys EN - list of instructions for building SM toys - English list with only one link to an English translation (to the first document I have translated - Steel chainlet flogger and all other links to Czech original pages)

Other sections - Documents, Stories ...

These sections contain Czech translations of English texts. They are therefore unsuitable for English speaking readers. I have no permission to post the originals and cannot provide you with links; I hate broken links and an important proportion of the texts is no longer available at the locations where I originally found them. I have authors' permissions to post translations to my site, but not the permission to post originals. Czech version of main page is the starting point if you are interested in Czech documents, stories etc. Google translator can be used to get approximate translations of titles or even texts of articles, which you may then google up /English originals/.

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